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So I’ll keep this relatively short. If you’re in a masochist relationship, you need to get the fuck out as soon as possible. Fighting every day of your life, tough love, and hate isn’t a different form of “love”. Those are dumb, idiotic things that people make up to justify all the negativity in their relationship. If your relationship consists of things like that, then lets be honest; you or your partner is immature as fuck and you need to stop dating for a while and really get some soul searching. Maybe you have some terrible insecurity or jealousy. Those are all things that come with being the immature little teenage fucks that we are. Some of us think we’re some grown adults and can handle everything but lets be honest guys; we aren’t and we can’t. A mature relationship should be happy times (well, obviously fighting sometimes is inevitable) and involve lots of trust… it shouldn’t be people fighting over dumb shit or texting someone every minute of the day accusing them of cheating. If this is happening to you, then you’re probably new or relatively new to being in a serious relationship. Which means that you still have a lot to learn about yourself. Then some of you say “but I can’t leave him or her, I love him or her!” But you don’t love that person. You might have loved the person they used to be until they turned into some douche. I could ask you to name reasons why you like this person and most likely you wouldn’t be able to come up with a good one. A relationship gone bad is like a bad habit you can’t get rid of. It’s like you people who are fat as fuck and continue to eat chocolate cake every day, then complain about how fat you are. Or it’s like you guys who fail school and bitch about it but continue to slack off and do nothing. That’s probably why you guys end up breaking up like 500 times and getting back together, because you have no will power to put down the chocolate cake and go jog and lose some damn pounds. Another sign of immaturity… no control over your life. If something is bad for you, you gotta stop the damn thing. So like some people say, “your either going to marry or break up.” Do you really want to spend the rest of your life arguing and fighting?
